Thursday 2 August 2007

You Get What You Feel You Deserve

This is probably one of the simplest and most valuable concepts for producing results in your life.

Have you noticed how some people just seem to get amazing things, sometimes without even trying?

For example there will be that guy who can just walk up to a group of strangers and instantly be their new best friend without doing anything special.

You may also know some people who always have a lot of money yet don't seem that different from you. Or similarly, you may know someone who has the exact same job as you, yet he seems to have much less money than you, even though he never seems to buy anything.

This is for the simple reason that people generate the results that they deep-down feel they deserve. If someone feels they deserve to have a lot of money, then they will find ways of getting it.

Take someone like Donald Trump who clearly feels he deserves billions. If he woke up one day with only millions he would sweat blood until earning his billions back. It may seem like a big challenge, but somehow you just know that he will pull it off.

This is the power of getting what you feel you deserve.

So how can you use this concept?

Find reasons why you deserve what you want.

It's that simple.

If, for example, you want a beautiful and loving girlfriend or wife, find reasons why you deserve one. It's literally as easy as getting a paper and pen and writing the question "why do I deserve this?" and then writing a big list why.

Now repeat this process until in your gut you know it's what you deserve.

If you can't think of anything, then start doing some things that would allow you to feel as though you deserve it.

Give it a try